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A Small Change That Made a Big Difference in My Ministry

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A Small Change That Made a Big Difference in My Ministry

When “Do Not Be Afraid” Became a Leadership Principle

For years, I heard St. John Paul II’s words, “Do not be afraid! Open wide the doors to Christ,” as a young disciple. Those words inspired me to follow the Lord with generosity and trust. But when I found myself entrusted with leadership, I discovered that those words demanded something more than enthusiasm. They demanded trust. Looking back, I realize that the small change that made the biggest difference in my ministry was not a new strategy, a better program, or greater resources. It was learning to stop waiting for certainty and to begin leading “at His word.”

The Temptation to Wait

As a young missionary serving within a thriving Catholic community, I was blessed to witness many signs of life. Ministries were active, families were engaged, and people generously served the mission entrusted to them. Yet one reality gradually became impossible to ignore. An entire generation was missing.

Through prayer and conversations with those responsible for the community, it became clear that if we hoped to remain faithful to our mission, we needed to intentionally invest in young people and create opportunities for them to encounter Christ and discover their place within the life of the community.

At first, I assumed the greatest challenge would be finding the right program, developing creative ideas, or attracting young people.

I was wrong.

The greatest obstacle was the temptation to wait.

Wait for more support.

Wait for more volunteers.

Wait until everyone agrees.

Wait until success seems more certain.

Support was limited, enthusiasm was mixed, and there were moments when waiting seemed the prudent choice. Yet throughout the Gospels, Jesus rarely calls His disciples after every condition is favorable. He calls them first and asks them to trust Him with the outcome.

That was when St. John Paul II’s invitation began to resonate in my heart in a completely new way.

“Do not be afraid.”

For the first time, I understood that these words were not simply encouragement. They were a way of leading.

Learning to Trust

Whenever I prayed about the situation, I found myself returning to Peter’s encounter with Jesus in Luke’s Gospel.

After working all night without catching a single fish, Peter had every reason to believe that another attempt would be pointless. Yet when Jesus invited him to cast the nets once again, Peter answered:

“Master, we have worked hard all night and have caught nothing, but at your word I will let down the nets” (Lk 5:5).

Those words became my prayer.

Eventually, I realized that ministry leadership is not about possessing certainty.

It is about possessing trust.

Years later, I would discover that St. John Paul II proposed the same path to the whole Church. In Novo Millennio Ineunte, he invited Christians to hear once again Christ’s command to Peter: Duc in altum, “Put out into the deep.”

The Lord was not asking me to guarantee the results.

He was asking me to trust Him enough to take the first step.

Taking the First Step

With very little help and no guarantees, we launched the first youth summer camp in our community’s history.

I did not know what the outcome would be. I simply believed that if the Lord was asking us to begin, He would provide what was necessary. To our amazement, hundreds of young people participated.

But numbers were never the greatest fruit.

Young people encountered Christ. Friendships rooted in faith were formed. Many remained actively involved in the community, and youth ministry began to flourish where there had been very little presence before.

Looking back, I no longer see the camp itself as the miracle.

The miracle was learning to trust.

Replacing Certainty with Trust

Years after first hearing St. John Paul II’s invitation, I finally understood it from the perspective of a leader.

Leadership in ministry does not mean having all the answers. It does not mean waiting until every obstacle disappears or until everyone agrees.

Leadership means discerning God’s invitation, taking the first step, and trusting Him with the fruits.

Too often, we wait for certainty before moving forward. Yet throughout the Gospels, Jesus repeatedly asks His disciples to trust before they can see.

Perhaps the greatest lesson I have learned in ministry is this:

God does not ask us to guarantee the results.

He asks us to trust Him enough to cast the nets.

And sometimes, the small change that makes the biggest difference in ministry is replacing the need for certainty with the courage to say:

“At your word.”

Practical Takeaways

  1. Do not wait for perfect circumstances before responding to what God is asking of your ministry.
  2. Discern carefully with those entrusted with leadership, but do not allow fear or uncertainty to become excuses for inaction.
  3. Remember that resistance often comes from comfort rather than opposition. Patience and perseverance are essential.
  4. Focus less on controlling outcomes and more on faithfully taking the next step God is asking of you.
  5. Like Peter, trust that Christ can accomplish far more through an open heart than we could ever accomplish through our own plans.
 

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